50 Ways on How To Find The Perfect Man


“Nothing makes me smile more than seeing your smile.”


 Here’s a sneak peek of our Family pictures from last week photo shoot. We originally had scheduled for a Outdoor Session but unfortunately it started to rain and we had to set up inside.. It all worked out super last minute and Naomi got some beautiful head shots!

My three year old had a blast laughing and was smiling throughout the whole session, and our photographer Kevin was AMAZING! He’s incredible with kids and made her feel very comfortable. Naomi was giving him high fives and said he was very silly!

“If you’re not willing to risk it all, you don’t want it bad enough.”

As a strong career driven women, I need someone in my life who’s gonna motivate me and not stress me.

My man has been my perfect match made from heaven and I couldn’t ask for better father for my daughter.

About 5 Christmas ago, I made Santa a Christmas List of the qualities of what I find attractive in a Man.. here they are off the top my head and in no particular order.

  • Intelligent
  • Kind
  • Extremely funny
  • Curious
  • Loves kids
  • Financially stable
  • Sexy
  • Romantic
  • Passionate
  • Compassionate
  • Irreverent
  • Intuitive
  • Generous
  • Same religion but not too religious
  • Optimistic but not a workaholic
  • Talented but humble
  • warm but not clingy
  • Grounded but not boring
  • Soulful but not new-agey
  • Vulnerable but not weak
  • Quirky but not weird
  • Free-spirited but responsible
  • Charismatic but genuine
  • Strong but sensitive
  • Athletic but not a sports nut
  • Open-mnded but has conviction
  • Decisive but not bossy
  • Mature but not old
  • Creative but not an artist
  • Supportive of my dreams and goals
  • Has a sense of wonderment about the world
  • Is close to my age (shares my cultural references)
  • Good listener and communicator
  • Flexible and can compromise
  • Sophisticated – well-educated, well-traveled, has been around
  • Over 5’9″ but under 6’0″
  • Has shared political views
  • Has shared values
  • Is not into sci-fi or comic books
  • Has good taste/sense of aesthetics
  • Health-conscious and physically fit
  • Cares about the community at large
  • Cares about animals
  • Competent
  • Handy around the house
  • Cooks
  • Likes the outdoors (hiking, biking, Rollerblading)
  • Likes my friends (and I like his)
  • Not moody
  • Trust worthy
  • Is a team player
  • Is literary and enjoys wordplay
  • Is math- or science-oriented
  • Likes discussing (but not arguing about) politics and world events
  • Stylish
  • Stimulating
  • Not a slob-respeful of our living space
  • Is madly in love with me


“Don’t chase people. Be you, do your own thing and work hard.

The right people who belong in your life will come to you, and stay.” 

I hope you guys all get your Holiday Shopping done in time and if you haven’t done it yet Go visit Santa and tell him what you want for Christmas! If your ship doesn’t come in, swim out to it!

[[♥]] Julie

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  1. Your little Family is so cute Julie! Naomi is so adorable!

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